I wanted to live the rest of my life with you

Instead, you lived the rest of your life with me.

I don’t know who said this originally, but it helped me to reframe (god I hate that word) the end of Randy’s life and my loss. Randy wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, and he got to do that. I am not an exceptionally generous person by nature, but I was able to give him that and it made him happy. Sometimes only one of you gets to be happy.